What Is The BluePrint For The Unhappy Parts Of Our Lives?

Good Morning Christian Peeps! What makes us happy? What are our core beliefs? What is that one thing we tell ourselves everyday? What is our blueprint for how we live? Maybe our blueprint is skewed. Maybe somewhere along the way we believed something had to be a certain way and when it wasn't we became unhappy. What are our belief systems doing to our lives. How are they shaping us? One particular blueprint I had that was allowing for unhappiness was my belief of what a relationship should be like. Because I didn't have an example to follow, I believed that all relationships were like a fairytale. "You got married, your husband always loved you and treated you like a princess, gave you everything you wanted....life was grand!" That is an example of an unreal expectation and although deep down I knew it wasn't supposed to be that way... I still expected it; thereby putting unreal expectations on my husband and our marriage. This was my example. But when we look at the unhappy parts of our lives....what blueprint are we measuring them by...is it the real deal or what we perceive them to be? When we can get to the root of our blueprint we can find out why there are parts of our lives that are continuously unhappy. Let our prayer be today, "Dear Lord, help me to be able to decipher the blueprint of that part of my life that is unhappy. Let me see any unreal expectations and help me to change." Be Blessed!